Do you enjoy a home project as much as I do? If you don’t, can I convince you that it actually might be an awesome hobby for you to try?

Let me first define “home project”. That’s anything you might do to make your personal space more enjoyable for yourself or your loved ones. 

That might be cleaning the kitchen, restocking the pantry, grocery shopping, washing the car, sweeping the porch, lighting some candles to make your bedroom smell nice, fluffing the pillows, sewing the pillows, doing a meal prep for the week, weeding the garden, fussing with your orchids, baking some bread… literally, anything that will make your home a nicer place to be. They’re incredibly additive to the quality of our life and not as hard as you might imagine to add in. Here are three ideas for how you can accomplish more projects in your own home and enjoy your chores.

Change Your Wording 

Growing up, my Mama called these kinds of things our chores (which, like most kids, I hated to do). For me, “chore” still feels like a bummer way to spend some time. 

But “home project”? That sounds lovely? Who am I, Joanna Gaines? Martha Stewart?? Where are my overalls? Where are my clogs?? I’m here for it! 👩‍🌾 Changing the way I spoke about taking care of my home changed the energy I brought to the experience.

Want to get my best ideas for making it feel like home? 👇🏼

Start Small + Finish Everything 

Depending on your current bandwidth, it might not be wise to take on anything massive. For instance, if you’ve just had a baby, launched your first business or are caring for an aging parent, it’s probably not the season to re-grout your bathroom. Start with small projects you can easily accomplish that will have an immediate impact. 

I’m a huge fan of taking my dry goods (pasta, beans, lentils, oatmeal) out of the bags they come in and putting them in glass canisters and mason jars. Is it necessary? No. Does anyone else in my family care about it? Absolutely not. But I love that it’s pretty for pretty sake. It makes me feel organized and accomplished, and it takes about three minutes to pull it off. If you want something to become a lifestyle (not just a one-time thing) you need to actually achieve it repeatedly, not just once. Aim at the simple tasks and use them as a foundation to build upon.

Lean Into What You Love

This is your home. Not your mother-in-laws or your sister’s place… yours. Make sure that you’re building projects around what you like. 

I’ve always loved to eat, so looking back to early motherhood (the beginning of my journey making a home for a family) I focused first on becoming a better cook. When the kids were a bit older I got my first orchids. Successfully keeping both children and orchids alive encouraged me to try other plants— now my house looks like a garden center! I don’t sew. I never got into sourdough bread baking. I’m not really into crafts. I focus on what I like and it always provides me with new and interesting things to try out. 

It doesn’t matter how big your place is— or even if the only area you have to call your own is your bedroom— your nest should be a soft and lovely spot to land. Try adding in a home project, I swear it becomes such a satisfying way to spend your time.

Let’s talk about the best travel outfit… at least according to me. If you’ve ever stood in front of your closet the night before a trip thinking, What do normal humans wear to the airport?, you are not alone. Travel outfits are a whole category of their own. You want to be comfortable enough to sit for hours, warm enough for unpredictable airplane temps, and still feel like the best version of yourself while you’re rolling through the terminal.

After years of flying for work, for book tours, and for fun, I’ve figured out a few simple guidelines that keep me comfortable and polished every time. Think of this as travel advice from a friend who has learned through many, many boarding groups.

Start With Layers You Can Count On

Airport air conditioning has a mind of its own. You might be hot one minute and freezing the next. Add in perimenopausal temperature fluctuation to that… layers are gonna be your best friend.

I like to create a sort of, 7-Layer Dip of clothing. I start with a fitted tank or tee, a soft long-sleeve or lightweight sweater, and then a jacket that looks great but doesn’t make you feel bulky. I love a packable jacket for this. I’ve had a green one from Madewell for almost a decade and my newest from Jarbo is magic. You can roll them into a ball, toss them in your tote, and somehow they come out looking great. If you’ve ever wondered what sorcery feels like, it’s that.

Choose Pants You Can Move In (But Not Sleep In!)

This is my gentle—but firm—travel rule: your pants should stretch and move with you, but still look like you’re headed somewhere, not like you rolled out of bed.

Here are refined options that always work:

• Tailored knit trousers
• Soft ponte pants with structure
• High-quality straight or wide-leg denim with stretch
• Polished pull-on trousers that read elevated but feel easy

These pieces are comfortable without looking like loungewear. You can sit comfortably for hours, but you wouldn’t feel tempted to nap in them. That’s the sweet spot.

Shoes That Love You Back

You’ll walk more than you expect on any travel day. Between security, gate changes, and the never-ending hunt for a decent airport salad, your shoes matter.

Great options include:

• Clean sneakers that look intentional
• Soft loafers
• Flat boots or low-heeled boots

Just make sure, if you don’t have pre-check that you get pre-check asap! But until then, choose shoe options for your travel outfit that are easy to slip off in the security line.

A Tote That Makes You Feel Put Together

Around here we love a good tote. It’s like a great assistant: it carries the chaos so you don’t have to.

I always look for one with a flat bottom because it sits securely on top of my carry-on. That small detail makes such a difference. No more wrestling your bag as it flops around while you’re trying to strut through terminal three.

Inside the tote:

• Approximately 25 smaller bags to keep the tote organized
• A couple pockets to find things quickly
• Enough structure that it holds its shape
• A strap that stays put over your shoulder

When your tote works, you work.

Travel Extras That Make the Day Easier

These little things make a big difference:

• A refillable water bottle so you can stay hydrated
• Delicious hand cream, Bamford makes my favorite
• Socks in your tote if you run cold
• Headphones for the perfect airport soundtrack
• Charging cables for ALL the things
• A great book to read

You’ll never regret being prepared.

The Heart of It All: Comfortable and Confident

Travel days can be stressful. Your travel outfit should be the easy part. You deserve to feel comfortable, capable, and put together from the moment you grab your suitcase until you arrive at your destination.

Because let’s be honest, meal planning is one thing, grocery shopping is another but if you actually turn all that prep work into a completed meal —with all the other responsibilities you have— it’s a massive victory. 

Today, I thought I’d share what actually helps me to consistently feed my family in a way that feels best to me: healthy, whole foods, ingredient diverse. Whether you’re cooking for one or cooking for eight, I hope these ideas might help with how to make healthy dinners easier.

1. Create a “Recipe” for Dinner

This piece of advice is aimed at anyone who is new to the dinner game— so, basically me 20-ish years ago. That was the first time I really tried to figure out how to grocery shop and cook dinner with consistency (before then it was all frozen dinners, canned soup and take-out). The bit of wisdom I wish I’d known back then is to establish a baseline for what every dinner is going to include. 

Don’t have one yet? Feel free to steal mine: protein + greens + complex carbs(think rice, potatoes, quinoa… whole food carbs). Nearly every dinner we make is a combination of those three things. I say “nearly” because on Saturdays we make a big family dinner which usually involves swapping out our complex carb for a simple one: homemade bread, pasta, naan, etc. By having a “recipe” for each dinner you make it infinitely easier to grocery shop. Ever read Atomic Habits by James Clear? He says “make your habit so easy you can’t say no”. 

2. Cook Once, Eat Twice

I have three teenage boys, that means we’re basically cooking enough to feed an army. Every night. The simplest way I’ve found to make dinnertime easier, is to set yourself up for tomorrow while making today’s meal. We do this in two ways: making enough so we’ll have leftovers for lunch and doubling up on anything we could repurpose later. This includes things like…

• Roast two whole chickens instead of one (or double your thigh recipe or grill more breasts) and tomorrow you’ve got the perfect base for chicken salad or stir fry. You can also use the carcass of the chicken to make your own bone broth— which is so stinking easy you’ll never want to pay for chicken stock again. Make extra roasted or grilled vegetables to toss into omelets, grain bowls, or wraps.
  
• Making Spaghetti Sauce? Always double (or triple!) your recipe; it freezes beautifully. Allow the extra sauce time to cool, then portion it out and store in the freezer. If you’ve always got frozen sauce in the freezer and dry pasta in the pantry, you’ve got spaghetti (my kids favorite dinner) on very little notice.
  
• Making ground beef for tacos, spaghetti, etc? Double your mince and keep the seasoning simple (I do salt, pepper, garlic and onions so it can be used for almost any type of cuisine we eat). This week when I made tacos I made extra and then this morning I used the leftover ground beef as the base for my slow cooker chili we’ll eat later tonight. *I took a picture to show you guys below.

3. A Little Prep Makes a Big Difference

There’s a reason so many chefs swear by mise en place—the simple act of prepping ingredients in advance. Whether it’s washing and chopping vegetables for the week, marinating proteins, or making a big batch of homemade soup we can eat on all week long, small efforts on a Sunday afternoon can turn a rushed Wednesday evening into a peaceful, joyful cooking experience.

Not sure where to start? My best meal prep tips are right here on the blog.

4. Shop Your Freezer

A well-stocked freezer isn’t just practical—it’s a little luxury. Ours is stocked with the proteins we eat all the time, frozen fruit and spinach for my smoothies plus a bunch of other super helpful ingredients.

• Meat – If your family eats animal protein, then the freezer can be your best friend. Ours is filled with various cuts of venison (we’re on the subscription from Maui Nui because 1. we love that brand and 2. wild venison is so lean and healthy) We also keep hamburger patties, chicken thighs and one gigantic brisket that producer Jack got me for Christmas that I still haven’t smoked yet. Look for your favorites to go on sale and then stock up the freezer.
  
• Fruits / Veggies / Herbs – I keep spinach and frozen berries in the freezer at all times so I can easily add them to my green smoothie everyday. I’ve also got a container of fresh mint I washed and froze that I use to make “fresh” mint tea almost every night. We’ve got tons of sliced bananas frozen in there too because every time bananas are about to go bad we freeze them and then later, Cez bakes them into our favorite gluten free banana bread.
  
• Bread – I’ve typically got sourdough bread and burger buns in the freezer so we never run out when we need them. Also, anytime the sourdough bread gets down to the last dry piece or nobody ate the heel, I tear it into pieces and add it to my “crouton” bag. When you want croutons, just put the frozen bread pieces on a sheet pan (it defrosts in about 15 min) drizzle with olive oil, salt and dried herbs and toast up in the oven. Delicious!
  
• Shop Before you Shop – Here’s the thing, you actually have to use what’s in the freezer for it to be helpful. Start your meal planning by opening the freezer first to see what you can use. Pull out the proteins you want as your base for this week and put them in the fridge to slowly defrost. Then plan your grocery list.

Making Home a Place of Intention

I started working on my home almost 25 years ago. It’s taken me at least that long to find rhythms and routines that work for us. Every new season of our lives brings new challenges: like learning to make baby food when the kids were infants or prepping school lunches when the started school or learning to eat for my cycle when I entered perimenopause. I mention this because it’s so incredibly easy to hear someone else’s ideas and feel like we should be further along in our own process. If for any reason these ideas made you feel anxious about not doing more, take a breath, wiggle your toes and feel yourself present right where your feet are. You are exactly where you’re meant to be. You don’t need to have it all figured out (none of us do!) Just start with intention. That’s what matters. What’s one thing you can do this week that will better set you up for success in some way? Start there, take it one step at a time, build your life and your home with a solid foundation.

It made me realize that there were people who had gone through hard things and didn’t just survive—they shared the lessons, the tools, and the wisdom they picked up along the way. That book didn’t just change how I saw myself; in a way, it set me on the path to becoming a writer of those types of stories, even though I didn’t know it at the time.

Since then, personal development books have been a huge part of my life. But over time, my definition of “growth” has evolved. In the beginning, I was mostly focused on self-improvement—”how do I get better?”, “how do I level up?”, “how do I fix what’s broken?” Now, I see growth as something much bigger. It’s not just about growing up—it’s about growing deep roots, it’s about growing your branches in all directions, in a way that’s more holistic and connected to every part of life.

That’s why I put together this list of my favorite personal development books for spiritual people. These books aren’t just about getting better at life—they’re about growing in a way that feels aligned, meaningful, and soul-nourishing. If you’re someone who wants both wisdom and practicality, both mindset and faith, this list is for you.

1. You Can Heal Your Life – Louise Hay

Louise Hay was one of the first authors to introduce me to the idea that our thoughts literally shape our reality. You Can Heal Your Life is a cornerstone of spiritual personal development, showing us how negative self-talk and unresolved emotions manifest in our bodies, our relationships, and our circumstances.

Also, if you’re not familiar with Louise, she was incredible! A total maverick– Louise started Hay House (the preeminent publishing house for spiritual books) decades before that was a popular category. See if you can find a YouTube of her speaking or teaching, her voice is so soothing and she always makes me feel like everything is going to be OK.

2. What If You Are the Answer – By Me

OK I have to include my new book too because, honestly, this one is personal. What If You Are the Answer? is the book I wish I had when I was going through the biggest transitions in my life.

So often, we look outside ourselves for the answers—waiting for a sign, searching for validation, hoping someone else will tell us what to do. But what if the answers you’re looking for have been inside you all along? What If You Are the Answer is about learning to ask yourself the right questions—ones that help you grow your intuition, understand yourself on a deeper level, and finally trust that you already have what it takes to create the life you want.

3. The Astonishing Power of Emotions – Esther & Jerry Hicks

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a rut emotionally, The Astonishing Power of Emotions is a game-changer. Esther and Jerry Hicks, channeling the wisdom of Abraham (yeah, this one gets really woo-woo, just go with it) explain how our emotions serve as a kind of internal GPS, constantly guiding us toward alignment with our highest self.

The key lesson? Instead of resisting “negative” emotions, we can learn to use them as a guidepost—helping us shift toward thoughts and feelings that bring us closer to joy, abundance, and ease. It’s a radical shift from the “just think positive!” mentality to something much more nuanced and powerful.

4. Ikigai – Hector Garcia & Francesc Miralles

Okay, let’s talk about purpose. Because if you’ve ever sat around wondering what the heck you’re supposed to do with your life, Ikigai will make you rethink the whole question.

This book explores the Japanese concept of ikigai, which loosely translates to “reason for being.” It teaches that true fulfillment comes from the intersection of four things:

• What you love
• What you’re good at
• What the world needs
• What you can be paid for

If you’ve been struggling with feeling lost or wondering if your passions could ever align with your career, this book is full of insights to help you uncover the deeper purpose behind why you do what you do.

5. The Power of Intention – Dr. Wayne Dyer

Dr. Wayne Dyer’s work has shaped so much of how I think about manifestation, mindset, and showing up for my life. The Power of Intention takes the concept of manifesting to a whole new level—not just wishing for things to happen, but aligning your energy and actions with the intention of what you want to create.

The biggest takeaway? We don’t attract what we want; we attract what we are. If you want more love, become more loving. If you want success, align with the energy of possibility. This book is a beautiful reminder that when we show up with clarity and purpose, life starts showing up for us in return.

6. Super Attractor – Gabrielle Bernstein

I had to include Super Attractor because Gabrielle Bernstein is the queen of blending spiritual principles with real-world practicality. This book is all about co-creating with the universe, stepping out of the cycle of fear and control, and allowing things to flow rather than forcing them.

One of my favorite lessons from this book is the idea that joy is a magnet for abundance. It’s a reminder that we don’t need to grind ourselves into the ground to “earn” the life we want—sometimes, the most powerful thing we can do is raise our energy, release resistance, and trust that what’s meant for us is already on its way.

Productivity isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing what actually matters. And in today’s blog post, I’m breaking down my favorite hacks for getting organized and making the most of your time, whether you’re running a business, chasing a promotion, managing a household, or juggling all the things at once. Plus, I’m including tactical steps on how to get organized you can start using TODAY to see results fast.

Let’s dive in!

Start with a Clean Slate (Literally and Mentally)

Before I can be productive, I need to clear the clutter—both physically and mentally.

I’ll never forget when I was 18, living in a tiny, crappy apartment in Burbank, trying to figure out how to be an adult. My first “desk” was a $22 folding table from Target, and I remember sitting there, trying to organize my dreams of being an entrepreneur and an author with the little time I had outside of my full-time job. That’s where my obsession with productivity started—because when your hours are limited, you HAVE to make the most of them.

Carrying mental clutter is just as exhausting as dealing with a messy workspace. Try this:

Declutter Your Mind

1. Brain Dump: Write down EVERYTHING that’s swirling in your head—errands, work projects, reminders, ideas, all of it. Then use the 3D Method.
2. The 3D Method:
   • Delegate anything someone else can do – I know this can be incredibly difficult if you’re not used to it but delegation is crucial for anyone who wants to get the most out of the time they have. Focus on what you (and only you) do best.
   • Delete anything that doesn’t matter – Seriously, what on that list can you delete? Could you put a reminder in the calendar for 3 months from now and revisit it then? Edit whatever you can.
   • Only Do the things that actually move you toward your goals – so simple and so accurate, the greatest productivity hack is just focusing on the things that get you closer to where you want to be.

I’ve used this method for years, and it’s one of the fastest ways to cut through overwhelm and actually take action. (Pro tip: I also use it for my kids. Instead of nagging, I make a chore chart so they always know exactly what’s expected—no arguments, no surprises.)

Declutter Your Space

Spring cleaning isn’t just for your house; it’s for your productivity too. If your desk, car, kitchen, or workspace is a disaster, it’s going to slow you down. Take an hour (or several) and clear out what you don’t need.

• If you haven’t used it in a year, get rid of it.
• If you’re holding onto something “just in case,” put it in a box and revisit it in six months. I have a big duffle bag in my closet where I put all the clothes I never wear but refuse to give up. My rule is, if after a few months I cant remember what’s in the duffle, I have to donate it because clearly it’s not a favorite.
• Create an environment that makes it easy to focus—your space should work for you, not against you.

I wrote a whole blog post about how to actually enjoy doing your chores if you need some inspiration around this topic.

Ditch the To-Do List—Use a Results List Instead

The Results List is a practice I wrote about extensively in my book Girl, Stop Apologizing but if you’re not familiar, let me give you a summary. To-do lists are endless and overwhelming and studies show they don’t actually help us make traction. Instead, focus on the results you want, not the to-do’s:

• Instead of “Update resume,” try “Send resume to 15 hiring managers today.”
• Instead of “Work on book,” try “Write 1,000 words before lunch.”
• Instead of “Get more clients” try “Make 25 cold-calls by EOD”

Results are specific. Results are what matter. Prioritize the three biggest moves that will actually move the needle in your life and focus on those. If you take nothing else from this blog post, let it be this: Stop being busy and start being effective.

Batch Your Work Like a Boss

Multitasking is killing your productivity. Every time you switch tasks, your brain has to recalibrate, which wastes precious energy. In fact, research shows that once distracted, a worker takes nearly a half-hour to resume the original task. Think about how many times you get distracted in a day… if it takes us half an hour to get focused again we could be losing hours (we don’t have!) because of distraction.

Instead, learn to batch your work. Not sure what that is? Read this blog post where I explain this life-changing style of working and how I do it!

This small tweak alone can 10x your efficiency.

Protect Your Focus and Energy

Want to get organized to be productive? It isn’t just about time management—it’s about energy management.

• Turn off notifications when you’re working on something important.
• Time block your day so you have clear focus periods.
• Set boundaries. (Say no to things that don’t align with your priorities.)

Your time is valuable. Treat it like the limited resource that it is.

Plan Ahead or Plan to Fail

Being organized isn’t something you’re born with—it’s a learned skill. And the secret to staying organized? Planning ahead.

• Take time each week to plan out your biggest priorities.
• Set three big wins you want to accomplish.
• Check your calendar for any appointments or prep work needed.

Want to take a deep dive on this subject with me? I did a whole podcast episode all about it and you can listen to it below.

Have you ever woken up one day and realized that the life you’re living just doesn’t fit anymore? Maybe the things that used to light you up now feel kind of… meh. The conversations you used to enjoy seem repetitive. The goals that once excited you? Not so much anymore.

If any of that resonates, it’s not a sign that you’re lost. It’s a sign that you’re outgrowing your old life—and that’s a good thing. Growth is supposed to happen. Evolution is part of the process. But that doesn’t mean it always feels great.

I’ve been through this many times—changing careers, ending relationships, stepping into new seasons—and let me tell you, outgrowing your old life can be confusing, scary, and even a little lonely. But knowing the signs makes it easier to recognize when it’s happening so you can step into your next level with intention.

So let’s get into it: 6 signs you’re outgrowing your old life—and what to do about it. (And if this topic is hitting home, be sure to check out the full podcast episode here for the deeper conversation!)

1. The Things That Once Excited You No Longer Do

Remember when you were obsessed with a certain TV show, a hobby, or a goal? And now? You just… don’t care anymore? That’s not laziness. That’s evolution.

Your interests, values, and passions shift as you grow. And while that’s normal, it can be unsettling—especially if people around you don’t understand why you’re not excited about the same things anymore.

What to Do:

Instead of forcing yourself to care about old interests, get curious about what excites you now. Try new things, explore different hobbies, or read books outside your usual go-to topics. Who you are today isn’t the same as who you were five years ago—so allow yourself to evolve.

2. Certain Relationships Feel Forced or Draining

One of the hardest parts of outgrowing your old life is realizing that some relationships no longer fit. Maybe a friendship that once felt effortless (like the girls from high-school) now feels like an obligation. Maybe conversations feel repetitive or surface-level. Ever get together with old friends but the only thing you all have in common is “the good ole days”? Pay attention to whether you feel drained rather than energized after spending time with certain people.

What to Do:

You don’t have to cut people off dramatically, but it’s okay to create space for new, aligned friendships. Seek out people, clubs or organizations who inspire you, challenge you, and make you feel excited about life. And most importantly—pay attention to whether you can be your true self in the relationships you’re keeping.

3. You Feel Restless—But You Don’t Know Why

Feeling antsy? Like something’s missing, but you can’t quite put your finger on what it is? That’s a sign you’re ready for a new challenge.

Restlessness is often misunderstood. We think, I should be happy. My life is fine. Why do I feel this way? But that feeling isn’t a bad thing—it’s your intuition nudging you toward your next level.

What to Do:

Follow your curiosity. Pay attention to what excites you, what interests you, and what sparks something inside you. Try journaling, vision boarding, or even just asking yourself: What would excite me right now? Your next step might not be clear yet, but trust that it’s unfolding.

4. Your Old Habits or Coping Mechanisms Don’t Feel Right Anymore

Sometimes we keep doing things out of habit—scrolling endlessly on social media, drinking every night to unwind, hanging out with the same crowd—until one day, it just doesn’t feel good anymore.

That’s a sign you’re evolving. You’re realizing that certain habits or patterns aren’t serving you the way they used to. And while that might feel weird, it’s actually a great thing.

What to Do:

Rather than forcing yourself to keep up old habits, ask yourself: What does the future version of me need? If your usual ways of coping don’t feel aligned anymore, it’s time to replace them with something that does. Maybe that means swapping social media for reading, replacing drinking with journaling, or finding new ways to decompress that actually make you feel better—not just numb.

5. You Have a Bigger Vision for Yourself

One of the clearest signs of outgrowing your old life? You’re starting to dream bigger. You’re craving more. You’re thinking about a new job, a bold move, a shift in how you show up in the world.

And yet—when you share that vision with certain people, they just don’t get it. Maybe they dismiss it. Maybe they laugh. Maybe they tell you to “be realistic.”

Here’s the truth: Not everyone will understand your next-level dreams. And that’s okay.

What to Do:

Protect your vision. Stop sharing your 10,000-foot dreams with people who can only see 200 feet ahead. Some people are eagles, soaring at high altitudes. Some people are sparrows, content flying lower. Don’t expect sparrows to understand the eagle’s view.

Instead, surround yourself with people who are also dreaming big. Find mentors, join communities, and connect with those who believe in the life you’re building.

6. Your Old Life Feels Too Small

Maybe your job feels limiting. Maybe your town feels too quiet. Maybe your daily routine feels claustrophobic.

The life that once felt safe and comfortable now feels restrictive. And while stepping into the unknown can feel terrifying, staying in a place that no longer fits is even worse.

What to Do:

Give yourself permission to expand. You don’t have to have all the answers, but you do have to be brave enough to step into what’s next. Start small—make a change, take a step, open yourself up to what’s possible.

Because you weren’t meant to shrink yourself to fit a life that no longer aligns. You were meant to grow, to evolve, and to step into the fullest version of yourself.

Final Thoughts

If any of these signs resonated, take it as confirmation: You’re not lost. You’re evolving. And that is a beautiful thing.

Instead of resisting the changes, lean into them. Trust that your next season is calling you forward for a reason. And most importantly? Give yourself permission to grow into the person you’re becoming.

Want to dive deeper into this topic? Listen to the full podcast episode here for even more insights, personal stories, and tactical advice on stepping into your next season with confidence.

And if this post spoke to you, share it with a friend who might need to hear it too. You never know who’s outgrowing their old life and needs that nudge to step forward.

As an entrepreneur, reading has been one of my biggest tools for growth. Leaders are Readers after all. There are so many incredible books that offer insights, strategies, and inspiration (I think I’ve read about 1,000 of them at this point) that can propel you forward on your entrepreneurial journey. Since I get asked all the time about what I’m reading, I’d love to share some of my absolute favorite books for entrepreneurs that have had a profound impact on me and my business. If you’re ready to grow and level up, these books should be on your shelf!

1. The One Thing by Gary Keller

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my entrepreneurial journey, it’s that focus is everything. Gary Keller’s The One Thing has been a game-changer for me in terms of understanding how to focus my energy and efforts on what truly matters. This book teaches you how to cut through the noise of everyday distractions and focus on that one thing that will have the greatest impact on your life and business. By narrowing your focus, you can make massive strides in less time. Whether it’s scaling your business, improving personal productivity, or simply finding balance, The One Thing will help you identify and prioritize your most important tasks. It’s all about doing less, but doing it better.

2. The Dip by Seth Godin

If you haven’t read The Dip by Seth Godin yet, you’re missing out on one of the most essential reads for entrepreneurs who’ve been “in the game” for a long time. Seth’s insights on knowing when to push forward and when to quit are incredibly valuable. In the book, Seth discusses the concept of “The Dip,” that tough period where most people quit, but those who push through it end up achieving great success.

If you want even more insights into Seth’s genius, I had the privilege of interviewing him on my podcast (after half a decade of trying!) where we dive deeper into his ideas. It’s a must-listen if you’re navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship or freelancing. You can catch our conversation here.

3. Girl, Stop Apologizing by Me

Of course, if we’re going to talk about favorites, I have to mention Girl, Stop Apologizing. I never imagined I’d write a book for women who were pursuing business and careers but so many people kept asking me how they could pursue goals without their ambition upsetting their partners and I realized we have a real problem. Writing this book was my answer. t’s all about taking ownership of your goals, dreams, and ambitions, and most importantly, learning how to stop apologizing for wanting more in life. I’ve met so many women who have big dreams but hold themselves back because of imposter syndrome or fear of judgment. In Girl, Stop Apologizing, I teach you how to break free from that mindset and build the confidence you need to pursue your dreams unapologetically. This book is a call to action, a wake-up call to stop hiding and start showing up as the ambitious entrepreneur you were meant to be.

4. The Gap and the Gain by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Ben Hardy

The Gap and the Gain is a powerful book by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Ben Hardy that explores a critical mindset shift that can make a huge difference in your entrepreneurial journey. The authors explain the difference between the “gap” (the space between where you are and where you want to be) and the “gain” (the progress you’ve already made). Entrepreneurs often focus too much on the gap, which leads to frustration and burnout, but focusing on the gain allows you to celebrate your progress and stay motivated. This book has been pivotal in helping me shift my mindset from a place of lack to one of abundance, helping me to stay grounded and inspired while running my business.

I had the pleasure of interviewing Dr. Ben Hardy on my podcast, where we discussed the powerful lessons from The Gap and the Gain and how you can start applying them in your life and business.

5. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey

Stephen Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People is a classic for a reason. This is one of my favorite books for entrepreneurs because lays out the foundation for personal and professional success, offering timeless principles for building strong habits and creating a life of purpose and balance. One of the biggest takeaways for me was Covey’s emphasis on proactivity and the importance of prioritizing what truly matters. I love the grid he made of “urgent, not urgent, important, not important” (I was so excited I drew it out in my notebook so I wouldn’t remember — hence the drawing above) In entrepreneurship, we can easily get caught up in the daily grind, constantly reacting to external circumstances, but Covey encourages us to take control of our lives by setting clear priorities and creating a plan to achieve them. His seven habits offer a holistic approach to becoming a highly effective entrepreneur—not just in business, but in all aspects of life.

6. The Alter Ego Effect by Todd Herman

The Alter Ego Effect by Todd Herman is one of those books that makes you say, “Why didn’t I think of that?” In this book, Todd introduces the concept of creating an alter ego to help you perform at your highest level. By tapping into this alter ego, you can step into your power and get past the self-doubt and hesitation that often hold us back as entrepreneurs. I love how Todd breaks down the idea of creating a persona to access your best qualities in moments when you need them most, whether that’s in a meeting, during a big presentation, or when you’re feeling overwhelmed by the weight of responsibility. It’s a fun, actionable concept that can radically change the way you show up in your business and your life.

If you haven’t yet read my favorite books for entrepreneurs, I highly recommend you add them to your reading list. And if you’re looking for even more actionable advice and inspiration, check out my podcast episodes with Seth Godin, Dr. Ben Hardy, and Todd Herman. It’s time to stop waiting and start taking action. The best is yet to come!

I don’t know about you, but Sundays are my favorite day to get organized and prep for the week ahead: that’s when I do my Sunday reset! We’re all juggling so many things that it’s easy to skip the intention and just rush to get it all done. It seems counterintuitive but I’ve learned over the years that I need to slow down to speed up. Taking the time to get outside the hustle and bustle and be strategic about how I want the week to go is a game changer. And let me tell you, a Sunday reset is the secret to feeling more grounded, organized, and ready to take on anything life throws your way.

In today’s post, I’m going to share the three key components of my Sunday reset ritual that have made all the difference in my productivity, mindset, and overall sense of calm. Whether you’re managing a household, running a business, or just looking to get your life together, these three steps are for you. So let’s dive in!

1. Declutter Your Space

Let’s start with the foundation of your reset: decluttering. Have you ever noticed how your physical space affects your mental space? It’s amazing how quickly clutter can accumulate over the course of a week—papers, dishes, clothes, books, and that one pile that you keep meaning to get to (but never do). The thing is, clutter doesn’t just make your home look messy; it also creates mental clutter that can prevent you from being fully present or productive.

That’s why my Sunday reset always begins with a quick and efficient decluttering session. And when I say quick, I mean it. I’m not talking about deep cleaning the entire house (although that can be part of your routine if you want!). I focus on the areas where clutter builds up the most, like the kitchen counters, my office desk, or the living room. You’d be amazed at how much lighter I feel when I spend just 15 minutes tidying up.

Here’s what I do:

• Pick up any stray items—clothes, mail, or anything that doesn’t belong in the space.
• Organize surfaces—clear your counters, desk, or any flat spaces that collect things.
• Tidy up your work area—highly recommend you do this one before you close up shop on Friday (or your version of Friday) so you can come back to work on Monday morning and hit the ground running.

I can’t stress enough how powerful this step is. When my space is clean and organized, I feel more at ease and ready to take on whatever the next day brings. If your home is clutter-free, your mind will follow suit!

2. Organize Your Week

Once my space is decluttered, it’s time to plan ahead. Trust me, there’s nothing more stressful than waking up Monday morning and scrambling to figure out what you need to do first. To avoid that chaos, I dedicate some time during the Sunday reset to organizing and plan my week.

Here’s how I organize my week:

• Review your goals: Take a look at the goals you’re working on for the month or quarter. What action steps do you need to take this week to move closer to them? Not sure what those goals should be? Try my annual calendar audit!
• Schedule your week: Block off time for important tasks, meetings, and personal commitments. I like to break my day into chunks so I can stay on track and avoid multitasking.
• Set priorities: Focus on the tasks that will have the biggest impact on your life, business, or personal well-being. Don’t waste time on busywork—stay focused on what matters.
• Make a Plan: I don’t just plan for the work-week, I also plan for everything I know my family will need like meal prep and groceries so I can be prepared. If you’re looking for a fun way to keep these things organized, we made these free dry erase printables years back that are still so cute!

Something I talk about in my podcast episode on the Sunday reset is how planning your week doesn’t mean you have to do everything at once. Instead of focusing on getting everything done, focus on being intentional with your time. This means saying no to things that don’t serve you, setting boundaries, and being realistic about what you can accomplish.

By organizing your week on Sunday, you’re giving yourself the gift of a clear, manageable schedule. You’ll wake up on Monday with a sense of purpose and direction instead of feeling overwhelmed.

3. Get Grounded

The final part of my Sunday reset is the most important, and it’s something I’ve really learned to appreciate over the years: getting grounded. This isn’t just about crossing off tasks or making your home look nice. It’s about taking a moment to reconnect with yourself and your intentions for the week ahead. If you’re constantly running from one thing to the next without stopping to breathe, you’re not really living—you’re surviving.

To get grounded, I carve out some quiet time for myself. This is often the part of my reset that feels the most restorative, so I’m very intentional about making space for it.

Here’s what I do to get grounded:

• Meditate or breathe deeply: I find that even just five minutes of mindfulness can make a huge difference in how I approach the week. If I’m feeling really stressed, I do a short breathing exercise (box breathing is sol helpful!) to calm my nerves and center myself.
• Journal: Writing is a powerful tool for reflection. I take some time to jot down how I’m feeling, what I’m grateful for, and any goals or intentions I have for the week. This helps me clear my head and set the tone for a positive mindset.
• Practice gratitude: I reflect on what’s going well in my life, which allows me to start the week with a sense of abundance rather than lack. Gratitude is such a game-changer!
• Move my body: Sometimes this is as simple as going for a walk, stretching, or doing some yoga. Getting my body moving helps me release any tension and shift into a more relaxed state of mind.

By taking a few minutes to get grounded, I ensure that I’m starting my week from a place of calm and confidence rather than stress or anxiety. This is essential for setting yourself up for success—not just in your work, but in your personal life as well.

Listen to My Podcast for More Tips on Resetting Your Week

If you want to dive deeper into these three steps and learn how to create your own Sunday reset routine, I recorded a podcast episode all about it! In the episode, I go into more detail on each of these steps and share some additional insights that will help you reset your mind and your space for a productive and peaceful week ahead.

If you’re feeling like your week is running you, rather than the other way around, this reset is just the thing you need. Listen to the episode, grab a cup of tea, and start building your own Sunday reset. I promise it’ll make a world of difference.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re working hard but not seeing the results you want, it might be time for a calendar audit! This is something I first learned about from John C Maxwell years ago and once I did it, I couldn’t ever look at my calendar the same way again. Want to have a great year? Then you need to think about how you spend your time. Your year is made up of months that are made up of weeks that are made up of days and ultimately what you choose to fill the hours in your day with. An annual calendar audit allows you to review your past year, identify what worked, and eliminate what didn’t, so you can focus on what truly matters in the year ahead. Here’s how to conduct your own annual calendar audit in a few simple steps:

Step 1: Gather Your Materials

Before you start, you’ll need the following:

• Your calendar: This could be digital (like Google Calendar) or physical. If you don’t have a detailed calendar (this is your sign to start one) but until then, I recommend using your phone’s photo library to jog your memory of key events.
• A notebook or journal: Choose something where you can jot down reflections as you go. Writing by hand is ideal to avoid distractions.
• A quiet space: Find a place where you can focus without interruptions. Grab a cup of coffee or tea to set the mood.

Step 2: Set Aside Time

A proper calendar audit requires focus and reflection. Aim to set aside at least 2–4 hours for this process. If possible, carve out uninterrupted time during a quieter period, like weekends or holidays, when you can truly dive into this exercise.

Step 3: Review Your Year, Week by Week

Start from January of the previous year and go week by week through your calendar. For each appointment, event, or task, ask yourself:

• What was this activity about?
• How did it make me feel?
• Was it worth the time, energy, and resources I spent on it?

Categorize your findings into three lists:

1. Worth It: Activities that added value to your life or aligned with your goals.
2. Not Worth It: Tasks, meetings, or commitments that felt like a waste of time or energy.
3. Self-Care & Fun: Moments where you took care of yourself, had fun, or recharged.

From there I like to write each one of those categories on top of a blank page and then put each and every event and appointment into one of the three. The first time I did this I was shocked to discover how many things I regularly did that were a waste of time. I was also disheartened to realize that I scheduled almost no time for self care.

Step 4: Identify Patterns

Once you’ve categorized your year, step back and look for patterns. Ask yourself:

• What types of activities consistently added value?
• Which commitments drained me the most?
• Did I make enough time for self-care and joy?

This step is key to understanding where you should focus your energy moving forward.

Step 5: Apply the 80/20 Rule

The Pareto Principle states that 80% of your results come from 20% of your efforts. Look at your “Worth It” list and identify the 20% of activities that had the biggest impact on your success or happiness. These are the areas to double down on in the coming year.

Step 6: Build Your New Calendar

Using the insights from your audit, start crafting your ideal calendar for the year ahead:

1. Prioritize the 20%: Schedule more time for the activities that made the biggest positive impact.
2. Plan for Self-Care: Add regular self-care and fun into your calendar—like monthly dinners with friends or a weekly yoga class.
3. Eliminate the Waste: Be intentional about saying “no” to commitments that don’t align with your values or goals.
4. Create a Weekly Template: Map out what your perfect week looks like, from work blocks to family time and personal growth activities.

Step 7: Reflect and Adjust

As you move through the year, revisit your audit. Regular reflection ensures you stay aligned with your goals and values. This practice isn’t just about improving productivity—it’s about designing a life that feels fulfilling and intentional.

Want to take a deeper dive on the Calendar Audit?

Listen to this episode of the podcast here or watch my video below 👇🏼

Let’s be honest—sometimes money is a touchy subject, especially for women. If you were raised in a similar environment to me, then you might have grown up believing that speaking about money was rude, greedy or selfish.

But here’s the thing: dreaming big about your future and planning for financial freedom isn’t just okay—it’s necessary.

As women, we have to think about our financial security. Statistically, women earn less on average than men, and we tend to live longer, which means we need more savings to cover retirement. On top of that, many of us step into caregiving roles—whether for kids, aging parents, or both—that can pause or derail our careers.

Financial security is about the freedom to make choices for your life. It’s about being able to leave a toxic situation if necessary, start your dream business, or sleep better at night knowing you’ve got a safety net. It’s about having the power to call the shots on your terms.

That’s why in this episode of The Rachel Hollis Podcast, we’re tackling this head-on. I’m answering your biggest questions about money– from how to dream unapologetically big to setting goals that align with your values and releasing the guilt society loves to hand us about financial freedom. If you’ve ever felt hesitant about pursuing financial freedom or setting bold money goals, this one’s for you.

But before you dive into the episode, let’s unpack some of the major themes and set the stage for why this conversation is so critical.

Why Do We Feel Guilty About Money?

Where does this money guilt comes from? For many of us, our earliest beliefs about money were shaped by what we heard growing up. Maybe it was a parent who said, “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” or teachers who emphasized hard work over financial literacy. These messages often planted the idea that wanting more money was somehow wrong or frivolous.

On top of that, there’s the societal double standard. Men are often encouraged to chase wealth and success without apology, while women are expected to focus on nurturing roles or “staying humble.” We carry these unspoken rules with us into adulthood, and they hold us back from dreaming as boldly as we deserve.

Here’s the truth: money isn’t the villain. It’s just a tool—a resource that, when used wisely, can create freedom, opportunity, and allow you to take care of the people you love most.

Set Financial Goals That Align With Your Values

Big dreams are one thing; taking action is another. This is where a little clarity goes a long way. Start by asking yourself: What does financial freedom look like to me?

For some, it might mean paying off debt or saving for a dream home. For others, it’s the flexibility to travel the world or leave a nine-to-five job. Whatever it is, write it down and get specific. The clearer your goals, the easier it is to create a plan to achieve them.

And here’s the big one: let go of the guilt. If your financial dreams are rooted in your values, there’s nothing selfish about pursuing them. Surround yourself with examples of people—especially women—who’ve dreamed big and achieved their goals. Their stories are proof that it’s possible.

Talk About Money

If there’s one thing I hope you take away from this conversation, it’s this: we need to start talking about money. Openly, honestly, and without shame. The more we normalize these conversations within our trusted circles, the more we empower ourselves and each other to break free from the stigma.

When you share your financial goals with people you trust, you’re not just inviting accountability—you’re also creating space for others to dream big, too. Imagine the ripple effect if more women felt confident and unapologetic about their financial ambitions.