Stephanie Taylor, Author at Rachel Hollis https://msrachelhollis.com/author/stephanie-taylor/ a better life in simple, achievable steps Thu, 18 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://msrachelhollis.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/cropped-site-icon-32x32.png Stephanie Taylor, Author at Rachel Hollis https://msrachelhollis.com/author/stephanie-taylor/ 32 32 Holiday Traditions Our Readers Look Forward to Each Year https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/12/23/holiday-traditions-our-readers-look-forward-to-each-year/ Tue, 23 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52611 Holiday traditions aren’t just rituals on a calendar. They’re the heartbeat of the season—the moments that ground us, connect us, and remind us what truly matters. They’re also what we remember most when we look back at holiday seasons past. In this special editorial, we’re sharing your most cherished traditions, from quirky annual rituals to time-honored family favorites. Your holiday stories prove just how magical those moments can be. 

As you read through these highlights of reader memories, let it inspire you to create—or reinvent—traditions of your own. After all, it’s these shared moments that transform the holiday season from simply festive to genuinely meaningful.

Food 

“Meundo and tamales from the hardworking hands of matriarchs in our hometowns. Bless them!” – Jennifer Rose-Kavanaugh

“Making my mom’s Minestrone soup on Christmas Eve!” – Gretchen Brown

“We have paella on Christmas Eve. Now that our kids are in college, we play games and then have a nice dinner. We also pick one evening right around the holidays and have a cooking competition. We team up, and we pick up a random ingredient ahead of time that has to be used in the dish. One year, we did all appetizers. Another year, each team got a course. We also have done blind wine tasting using random wine my folks pull out.” – Holly Lister Castillo

“Making my moms Carmel popcorn, which is a secret family recipe with almonds and pecans! I only make it once a year! It’s so delicious.” – Nicole Whyte

“I make your crock pot stuffing every Thanksgiving. It’s a crowd favorite and so easy!” – Julie Niedzwiecki 

“I make my late mother’s famous peanut butter balls.” – Jennifer Tuttle Robertson

Movies, Books, and Productions

“Watching It’s a Wonderful Life and Die Hard on Christmas Eve. One of our traditions.” – Sherry Uribe

“I read The Night Before Christmas and The Christmas Story every Christmas Eve.” – Mary Dundas DeMoss

“We drive around in our Christmas jammies with pizza and some hot cocoa. We look at Christmas lights, while listening to Christmas music! Another one we love is getting dressed up fancy and going to our local Nutcracker ballet. I live for Christmas traditions!” – Stacey Partridge

“On Christmas Eve, we watch It’s a Wonderful Life. We wear Christmas jammies all day.” – Diane Ma

“We love to go to the Nutcracker. Yes, boys can go too! Then, we look at all the Christmas lights and talk about the year we’ve had and all the blessings we are grateful for. Ending the day with hot cocoa while opening one gift. Most importantly, we are together as a family.” – Kat Ann

Games & Competitions 

“Our son gets a new ornament from us and his grandparents every year. He goes on a scavenger hunt to find an ornament in the house.” – Carley Elizabeth DuBois

“We wrap each kiddos’ gifts in different paper. They don’t find out which is theirs until Christmas morning, finding a small one at the bottom of their stocking. It’s a newer tradition (four years), but our boys love it.” – Gladys Evelyn Ramsdell

Decorations

“Well, my aunt passed away this year. I loved her very much. Every Thanksgiving, she put up her tree. She would let her children, her nieces, and nephews decorate it if we wanted to. So, I’m going to put up my Christmas tree on Thanksgiving every year for now to carry on that tradition.”  – Rene Stoik

“I love all things Hygge — candles, hot tea, salt lamps, cozy blankets, soup, and connections with loved ones. We live in Indiana, and for years, I have struggled with low mood and energy in the winter. Shifting my mindset and making my routine and environment cozy has been a game changer for me.” – Jenni VanSkyock

“Cutting down our Christmas tree as a family the day after Thanksgiving!” – Rebecca Coontz Swyers

“On Black Friday, the Christmas decor comes out, and it takes all weekend to create the Magic.” – Heather Winter

Gifts

“My husband and I both grew up with a small train and village under our Christmas tree. We love that now we get to do that for our 2-year-old son. We have a mix of little houses and LEGO creations, with all different themes: Harry Potter, Jurassic Park, Star Wars, the Disney castle, the Haunted Mansion, and a bunch of the Christmas-themed LEGOs. It was so much fun to watch our son interact with it last year, and we can’t wait to see it light up his face again this year!” – Janine Marie

“I still do Elf on the Shelf for my four boys. They are 22, 20, 17, and 17. It brings joy every morning during December.” – Danielle Cooper

Crafts 

“We go to a local ceramic studio every Thanksgiving. We each pick out an ornament to paint. Now, after 16 years and three kiddos, my tree is filled with memories and homemade ornaments.” – Jennifer Hargreaves Crawford

“My Mom has a December birthday, and we celebrated a few years ago with crockpots of chili and hot chocolate, simmering all day while we made wreaths out of a combination of greenery we each brought from the woods around our houses. Turned out to be the start of a fun holiday tradition.” – Andrea Cralle Hathaway

Activities 

“The week of Thanksgiving, we have a family camp out with all the turkey and dressing fixings. Every year, we camp at a different spot.” – Niece Hale

“We enjoy our Thanksgiving meal with extended family. Then, after we drive to the North Shore in Minnesota and go to Betleyville, a large Christmas light display with different stations spread throughout with things like Santa, stores, and popcorn.” – Chelsea Markfort

“I have a sleepover at my parents house on Christmas Eve. My brother, his wife, and kids and my husband, kids, and me. We play board games or pool together. Then, we open Santa’s gifts in the morning.” – Tiffany Neiter

“Advent with activities that are grounded in quality time: one day we make ornaments, one day we wrap gifts for the less fortunate, and one day we watch a movie. The kids never know what comes next.” – Aura Fain

“We get hot chocolate and drive around looking at Christmas Lights at least one night in December. We also do new jammies. Christmas morning, we open one present at a time to make the morning last longer.” – Joy Franklin

“We volunteer at a senior center every year the day before Thanksgiving, making floral arrangements with the seniors, making challah, singing and dancing. It brings good cheer and builds relationships in our community.” – Mindy Pannell

“We have a Mailbox that says “Letters to Santa.” Well we changed it to “Love Letters,” which are letters to each other. It stays out all year long, and we all put notes to each other in it. Every Christmas Eve, after dinner we gather together in the living room, and we read the notes to each other. It’s just short simple notes, but it means so much. Then, we open our gifts. We also read the Christmas story and sing Christmas carols.” – Lavena Dodd

“The lighted Christmas boat parade downtown on the river. So fun!!” – Nancy Porter

“We make homemade gingerbread houses (Pampered Chef) at Thanksgiving with all the cousins. We also dress up for the Thanksgiving Detroit 5k.” – Denise Coop

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How to Optimize Your Time During the Busy Holiday Season https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/12/18/how-to-optimize-your-time-during-the-busy-holiday-season/ Thu, 18 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52596 It’s the holiday season, and in the blink of an eye, your calendar has filled up with work holiday parties, your kids’ holiday recitals and field trips, and family gatherings. So much to do, so little time. Take a breath and remember—the holidays are meant to be a time of joy.

You don’t have to do it all, but you can prioritize quality time over striving to do it all and be it all for everyone. It’s easy to get lost in the busyness of the season and miss out on the magic that defines it. Instead of stressing about everything on your calendar, here’s how to optimize your time and make the most out of the season.

Batch Tasks on Your To-Do List

If you have batched your tasks before, you know that it’s a time management game-changer. Whether you batch entire days or chunks of time for certain types of work, batching tasks is the ultimate way to optimize your time. The idea is to block out time for certain tasks during certain days or times of the day, like cooking, cleaning, or creative brainstorming. 

For example, you might be most creative in the mornings. So you could use this time to write, draw, paint, design, or whatever creative work entails. Later in the day, you might focus on more administrative tasks like taking phone calls and appointments. Batching your tasks is all about showing up in the right state of mind for the right job.

Block Out Time to Recharge

Rest should be a priority during the busyness of the holiday season. Think about it: On one hand, the holidays are the most joyful time of the year. On the other hand, the holidays can also be stressful and germ-ridden. If you want to truly optimize your time, rest has to be on your agenda. Whether it’s time to go for a 30-minute walk, reading a book with your morning cup of coffee, or meditating for 10 minutes, you need time for yourself. Don’t feel guilty for taking it. 

Change Solo Tasks Into Group Activities

If you want to optimize your time during the hustle and bustle of this season, don’t do everything alone. For all the Type A people out there, it might be your default to dive in head first into your daily tasks without asking for help. Instead, make your tasks into fun, group activities. If you are baking holiday desserts for work events or your child’s holiday party, turn it into a family affair. Invite your kids or your spouse into the kitchen to bake with you. It will make the time go faster, and it will feel a lot less like work and more like fun.

Lean Into Early Mornings

As the holidays loom near, you might be tempted to burn the midnight oil, but don’t. In the words of Rachel, if you own the morning, then you own the day. So as best as possible, stick to your normal routine. Your immune system will thank you. You can use this time to workout, journal, hydrate, caffeinate, and ground yourself before the day starts. If you need more time, wake up a little earlier to work on your holiday to-do list. The early morning quiet is ideal to accomplish gift wrapping, decorating, or any last minute work items you need to close out before the holiday break.

Embrace Simplicity

When it comes to the holidays, less is more. If there is anything on your to-do list that brings you more anxiety than joy, cut it off. There’s nothing you have to do. Remove the pressure to decorate your home like a magazine cover or bake an award-winning turkey.

The holiday season will go on if you don’t have the decorations up by December 1 or bake the perfect holiday cookies for your child’s third grade class. Perfection is not the goal. Instead, put the tree up on a weekend when you have more time, and don’t be afraid to buy store-bought cookies—they’ll still get eaten! 

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7 Easy, At-Home Immunity Boosting Hacks for Cold Season https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/12/16/easy-at-home-immunity-boosting-hacks-for-cold-season/ Tue, 16 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52532 Nothing can stop you in tracks during the holiday season like a cold. There’s no worse time for a sore throat and stuffy nose to set in than when you have Q4 projects to wrap up, gifts to purchase, and planes to catch. Instead of rushing to your local pharmacy to get an over-the-counter medication, shop your pantry. Some of the most effective and cost-efficient immunity boosters are kitchen staples that you might already have. 

The best part is the quality control. You get to dictate what is going in your body and know precisely what ingredients you are digesting. No more confusing labels. Check out these seven at-home immunity boosting hacks perfect for cold season. 

1. Ginger Tea

Ginger has anti-inflammatory properties that make it great for warming and soothing a sore throat. It also helps alleviate congestion and nausea. If you’re feeling sick, try drinking two to three cups of ginger tea daily. For the best results, you can grate ginger directly into a cup of hot water. 

2. Saltwater Gargle

Simply add half teaspoon of salt in a glass of warm water and gargle for 30 seconds. Repeat a few times for the best results. The salt is great for reducing inflammation and that sore, achy feeling in your throat. This at-home immunity booster is great to relieve sinus pressure and clear out all the gunk that is making you feel congested.

3. Hot Toddy Recipe

One DIY immunity booster that our founder, Rachel Hollis, swears by is the Hot Toddy. It’s perfect for soothing a sore throat and suppressing a bad cough. If you are looking to kick the common cold, this drink, which can be made with or without whiskey, might do the trick. The best thing is that most of the ingredients are likely in your kitchen cabinet.

Here’s the recipe: 

  • Hot water
  • Lemon juice (for Vitamin C)
  • Honey (to soothe a sore throat)
  • Cinnamon stick (known for anti-inflammatory effects)
  • Cloves
  • Optional: A shot of whiskey 

Here’s how to make it: 

  1. Boil water, then remove it from the heat.
  2. Add the lemon juice, honey, cinnamon stick, and cloves, and let the mixture steep for five to seven minutes.
  3. Serve warm with a lemon slice. 

4. Elderberry 

Research shows that black elderberry extracts and flower infusions can lessen the intensity and duration of the flu and sinus infections. Elderberries are also packed with  anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties, but you’ll want to be cautious with this powerhouse fruit. You should never eat elderberries raw. Keep in mind that only blue and purple elderberries are edible.

For an easy at-home immunity booster, grab some elderberries from your local market. Boil them with simmering water and sugar. Once you have a thick liquid consistency, strain the liquid to reduce it into a yummy syrup, perfect for breakfast.

5. Essential Oils 

Essential oils can be a game changer when it comes to nixing the common cold. Since they are derived from plants, they are powerful agents to attack cold and flu symptoms. Eucalyptus’ antiviral and antimicrobial properties make it a longtime staple for treating the common cold. Peppermint is ideal for reducing fevers and unclogging congested noses. 

You can use essential oils several different ways: by diluting it with water and applying it directly to your skin, inhaling it through a diffuser, or combining it with other natural ingredients to make a spray. 

6. Apple Cider Vinegar Tea 

It’s hard not to brag about apple cider vinegar considering all its health benefits. Not only is it good for boosting immunity and lessening the effects of a cold, but it’s also great for digestion and weight loss. You can make a simple apple cider vinegar tea at home. Beware, it has a strong taste, but the stronger the drink, the faster it will work.

Here’s the recipe: 

  • Two tablespoons of apple cider vinegar
  • One to two tablespoons of honey
  • A squeeze of lemon
  • Hot water (fill up as much as you want to dilute)

7. Epsom Salt 

If you want to detoxify your body from germs, run hot water for a bath and add some Epsom salt. The minerals in the salt actually work to purge your body of toxins that are released into the bath. Not only is it relaxing, an Epsom salt bath is good for you. It will boost your immunity and have you back on your feet in no time. Pro-tip: Add lavender oil for increased relaxation.

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5 Simple Ways to Prepare Your Home for Guests https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/12/11/5-simple-ways-to-prepare-your-home-for-guests/ Thu, 11 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52530 During the holidays, you are likely doing one of two things: traveling to stay with family or preparing for guests to stay with you. If you’re in the latter group, before you start feeling overwhelmed about home preparations, take a breath. There’s no need to stress about having picture-perfect decor and magazine-worthy meals for your guests. 

Perfection is overrated. The best way to make your guests feel welcome this holiday season is to create a home-like atmosphere. Home is never perfect; it’s oftentimes loud, messy, and chaotic. That’s also what makes it wonderful. Here are a few simple ways to prepare your home for guests during the holidays and make them feel like they are a part of the family. 

1. Stock Your Kitchen and Bathroom With Staples

To prepare your home for guests, first stock your home with the basics. Check your kitchen pantry and fridge for essentials like bread, oatmeal, bananas, seasonal fruit, eggs, milk, cheese, and cereal. Of course, check with your guest for any dietary needs or restrictions before heading to the grocery store. Also, don’t forget to stock the bathroom with toilet paper, fresh towels, hand soap, bar soap, essential oils, and anything else you think your guests might need.

2. Add a Personal Touch

Whether it’s a handwritten note, a welcome basket, a book you think they’ll enjoy, or a coffee mug with their favorite coffee grounds, the little things make a space feel special. Adding a personal touch shows you took time and effort to prepare your home for them. The small details instantly elevate hospitality into true thoughtfulness.

3. Offer Options, Not Obligations

Of course you want to make your guests feel welcome, but you also don’t want to make them feel pressured. Let your guests set the pace. You can share your schedule with them and invite them to join you in any activities, but don’t make it an expectation. Guests should feel free to sleep late and go out for meals alone when they want to. Keeping the environment light and easy will create an inviting atmosphere. 

4. Put Out a Flower Arrangement—Whether Fresh or Artificial

A little pop of color goes a long way to livening up a space for house guests. Flowers add personality and brightness to any room in the house. You can add a vase of flowers to the kitchen table, the bathroom windowsill, or your guests’ bedroom nightstand. Be sure to check if your guests are allergic to flowers, as this will determine if you buy real or fake ones. Also, lean into seasonal flowers for an extra touch of elegance and intentionality. Orchids, tulips, and violets are in full bloom during the chilly, winter months.

5. Anticipate Their Needs

Before your guests arrive, think about everything they’ll need from the beginning to the end of their trip. Set up a homey guestroom with clean sheets, closet and drawer space, extra pillows, and a good night lamp. Write a handwritten welcome that includes any passwords for Wifi, gate entry, or security. Plan a house tour to show them where supplies are stocked and how everything works. You can even make them a welcome drink for when they arrive, like Rachel’s tasty, holiday sangria. Cheers to giving your guests the warmest experience!  

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How to Create a Beautiful Charcuterie Board for the Holidays https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/12/10/how-to-create-a-beautiful-charcuterie-board-for-the-holidays/ Wed, 10 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52528 The holidays are around the corner, and you know what that means: the pressure to bring your A-game to the dinner table. The truth is the holidays can be stress-free. Yes, even in the kitchen, you can thrive during this busy season. We’re here to lighten your load and help you build the MVP of holiday hosting — a show-stopping charcuterie board. The colors, the textures, and the flavors invite everyone to gather, nibble, and linger; this centerpiece doubles as a conversation starter and a reflection of effortless elegance. 

Here’s how to elevate your charcuterie board from casual appetizer to show-stopping centerpiece worthy of any festive table.

1. Choose a Strong Foundation — The Board

The foundation is critical for a beautiful charcuterie board. Think of it like the canvas. Choose one that complements your aesthetic. A large wooden board exudes rustic charm, while marble or slate feels sleek and sophisticated. Size it up based on your party size or the group you are hosting — a smaller board for an intimate hangout, a big one for a crowd of hungry holiday gatherers.

Bonus tip: Add a piece of parchment paper underneath for easy cleanup because no one wants to wash boards all night.

2. Gather Your Star Players — The Ingredients

A winning charcuterie board has balance — just like a great team. You’ll want to mix up flavors, colors, and textures. Here’s your ideal lineup:

  • Cheeses (The MVPs): Choose three to four varieties — something soft (brie or goat cheese), something hard (aged cheddar or manchego), something funky (blue cheese if your team’s adventurous).
  • Meats (Your Power Players): Prosciutto, salami, soppressata — roll or fold them for flair.
  • Crunch Factor (The Mainstays): Crackers, breadsticks, baguette slices — these keep everything moving.
  • Sweet Touch (The Crowd Pleasers): Grapes, figs, dried apricots, or honey for drizzling.
  • Savory Boosters (The Secret Weapons): Olives, pickles, nuts, mustards, and spreads to keep everyone’s taste buds on their toes.

Bonus Tip: Mix up colors — creamy cheeses, ruby red salami, emerald green grapes — so your board pops like a holiday highlight reel.

3. Arrange With Intention — Building the Board

Start with your anchor elements — cheeses and bowls for dips or spreads. Space them out so you can fill in the gaps. Then layer in meats, folding or rolling them like little rosettes. Add your crackers and bread around the edges (because no one wants to reach through the cheese for a bite.)

Next, fill in the open spaces with color: scatter fruit, nuts, and garnishes like rosemary sprigs or cranberries. Don’t worry about perfection — a great board is about abundance and flow, not perfect symmetry.

4. Finish Strong — The Presentation

Presentation is everything. A light drizzle of honey over brie, a scatter of pomegranate seeds, or a few edible flowers can instantly elevate the visual impact. Your festive masterpiece is ready for the spotlight!

Bonus Tip: Add a few small cheese knives, tongs, and labels so guests can serve themselves and dig in without hesitation.

5. Savor the Moment

Now that your board is ready, it’s time to enjoy it! Snap a photo (because let’s be honest, you earned it), pour yourself a glass of something bubbly, and soak up your masterpiece. Because you’ve not only created a spread but an experience.

Remember, a charcuterie board isn’t just about food — it’s about bringing people together. It’s laughter, conversation, and those magical moments that make the holidays unforgettable. Let’s make this season beautiful, delicious, and full of cheer.

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5 Easy Ways to Add a Sense of Hominess to Your Space During the Holidays https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/12/09/5-easy-ways-to-add-a-sense-of-hominess-to-your-space-during-the-holidays/ Tue, 09 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52531 The holidays aren’t just about gifts or glittering decor—they’re about creating a space that feels warm, lived-in, and deeply comforting. Whether you’re hosting a large group or simply savoring quiet moments at home, a few small touches can go a long way in making your space feel cozy and welcoming. Here are some simple yet effective ways to infuse your home with an undeniable sense of hominess this holiday season.

1. Light It Up—Softly

Swap out harsh overhead lighting for the warm glow of string lights, candles, or lamps. Soft lighting instantly creates a relaxed mood. Try clustering candles on the dining table or weaving twinkle lights around windows or mantels for an understated festive feel.

2. Layer With Texture 

Nothing says comfort like a well-placed throw blanket or an extra set of pillows. Think knits, flannel, velvet, and faux fur. Layer textures on your couch, bed, or even dining chairs to invite people to sit and stay a while.

3. Let Scent Do the Talking

Our sense of smell is deeply connected to memory and emotion. Simmer a pot of cinnamon sticks, cloves, and orange peel on the stove, or light a seasonal candle with notes of pine, vanilla, or spiced cider. Your home will smell as inviting as it looks.

4. Bring Nature Inside 

A sprig of evergreen, a bowl of pinecones, or even a bundle of cinnamon sticks tied with ribbon can add organic charm. Don’t overthink it. Sometimes, the most simple, natural elements make the greatest impact toward creating a sense of hominess.

5. Add Personal Touches

Display items that tell your story: holiday cards, family photos, or cherished handmade ornaments from years past. These small touches are what turn a house into a home. Mix them in with your decor to add heart and character to the holiday aesthetic.

6. Prioritize Comfort

Put a basket of slippers by the door. Keep a tray of mugs and cocoa fixings at the ready. Stock the couch with books and blankets. Hominess is all about ease and thoughtfulness.

In the end, creating a homey holiday atmosphere isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence. So turn on the music, dim the lights, and enjoy the simple magic of being home for the holidays.

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How to Set Boundaries With Your Family During the Holidays https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/12/04/how-to-set-boundaries-with-your-family-during-the-holidays/ Thu, 04 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52529 It’s the most wonderful time of the year—the lights are twinkling, decorations are up, and snow is falling (depending on where you live). The holidays are a busy season with many people traveling to be with loved ones. While that time can be highly anticipated and beautiful for some, for others, this time of year can create anxiety.

You might feel a knot in your stomach or a sense of dread—and hey, that’s perfectly okay. No judgment here. You’re also not alone in those feelings. So many of us have complex relationships with family, which makes traveling home for the holidays a mixed bag. Here’s how to effectively set boundaries with family during the holidays while still enjoying your time.

Communicate and Set Expectations Clearly

The unique challenge about traveling home for the holidays is that everyone will have different expectations. It’s important to level set early on. By doing so, you ensure that there are fewer miscommunications and misunderstandings.

To set expectations, ask yourself these questions before you board the plane home: 

  • Do you need or want a ride from the airport?
  • Where will you be staying during your time at home?
  • Would you like to spend your entire time at home with your family? Would you like to set aside time for friends, your immediate family, or for alone time?
  • Will you be home for every meal or are there certain days of the week when you will do your own thing?
  • Will you get a rental car, plan to share a family member’s car, or just hitch a ride with family?

Of course, your family might not be happy with how you spend your time. But your job isn’t to manage their feelings or disappointments. It’s simply to communicate.

Budget for Family Time and Alone Time

Family time is the crux of the holiday season. So we totally understand why time with loved ones is a priority. While family time is essential, don’t forget to set aside time for yourself and your immediate family. Whether it’s time to exercise, going to your favorite local restaurants, or getting outside in nature to see the sights, planning time apart from your larger family can be a life saver during the holidays. It’s also a chance to check in with yourself and your immediate family and gauge how everyone is doing.

Plan For Separate Lodging

Okay, this might sound harsh, but sometimes, booking separate lodging from your family during the holidays can make a world of difference. Cozying up with 12 people and three bathrooms under the same roof might sound nice. But after day five, it might get a little overwhelming. Instead, figure out the best plan for yourself and your immediate family. Whether you book a hotel or a cozy AirBnB, prioritize your peace of mind. There is nothing wrong with staying separate from your family during the holidays. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Be Firm on What You Will and Will Not Discuss

One of the best boundaries you can set with family during the holidays is topics of discussion. There is nothing more awkward than sitting around the family dinner table and that one uncle or aunt (you know the one) asks a question that makes the room come to a sudden stop. 

So why are you dating anybody yet? You’re too beautiful to be single. When are you going to have kids? Have you started trying? How have you been doing since the divorce? We never liked your ex that much anyway.

Before you head to the family dinner table, decide what topics are off limits. Yes, you get to decide what you will and will not share. If someone brings up an off-limits topic, you can respond gently with, “I’d prefer not to talk about that, but tell me what’s been going on with you.” You might also say, “I don’t have any updates there, but I have been traveling the country and really excelling in my career.”

Steer the conversation away from topics that you don’t feel comfortable divulging. Focus on the topics you want to share. 

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Rachel’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/12/02/rachels-2025-holiday-gift-guide/ Tue, 02 Dec 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52595 A collage of products including gold hoop earrings, a red sweater, a fur collar jacket, a set of pans, a record player, a candle, a purse, and headphones.

For the person who has seen pretty much every “best of” list but still wants the right holiday gift guide recommendations—here’s your definitive edit. Of course, you don’t just want to give gifts that are blasé. Because what’s the fun in that? Gifts should be thoughtful, intentional, and maybe even spark that extra “wow” factor that leaves your Aunt Berta in quiet admiration.

From travel essentials to skincare saviors and indulgent home upgrades, these gifts strike the balance between luxury and practicality. These are brands that we know and have tried. We love them, and we hope you will too.

Just a reminder: There are no affiliate links in this article; these are favorite products from the team at ACHRE that we thought you’d love too.

For the Traveler Who Knows Every Detail Matters

Beis Weekender Travel Bag ($108)

The internet’s favorite travel bag—structured, roomy, and smartly designed with a separate shoe compartment. Equal parts chic and functional, it’s perfect for spontaneous weekend escapes or holiday visits home.

Fujifilm Instax Mini 12 Instant Camera ($124.95)

An instant camera printing a photo of two smiling friends who are hugging

Nothing says “memories made” like instant prints. The Fujifilm Instax Mini 12 Instant Camera brings back the nostalgia of printed photos and is perfect for travelers and memory-keepers alike. It’s compact, charming, and guaranteed to capture the season’s most candid moments. Guaranteed to be a big hit with the teen or pre-teen in your life.

For the Beauty Minimalist with Great Skin

Saie Slip Tint Clean Tinted Moisturizer ($38)

Rachel has sworn by this product for years and we get it! This skin-perfecting multitasker that delivers hydration, SPF, and a healthy glow—this moisturizer is the minimalist’s makeup dream. The Saie Slip Tint Clean Tinted Moisturizer is ideal for both effortless mornings and polished Zoom calls. 

Skyn Iceland Nordic Skin Peel ($48)

These exfoliating pads revive winter-worn skin with gentle lactic acid and soothing botanicals. Bright, smooth, and balanced—just how we like it. Think spa results, but no appointment needed.

OSEA Undaria Algae™ Body Oil – 5fl oz ($52)

A close up image of a woman holding a bottle of body oil as she stands in front of an ocean

The OSEA Undaria Algae Body Oil (a favorite of Victoria Beckham) is one of those “thank me later” gifts. The seaweed-infused formula melts right into your skin and smells citrusy and fresh. Plus, it’ll leave you glowing like you just walked out of a spa. Trust me, it’s the kind of treat-yourself upgrade everyone secretly wants in their stocking.

For Hair That Deserves a Little Luxury

Kérastase Nutritive Ultra-Hydrating Mask ($65)

Winter dryness has met its match. A cult favorite for a reason, the Kérastase Nutritive Ultra-Hydrating Mask is luxurious, rich, and worth every drop. This ultra-nourishing mask rescues even the driest hair, restoring shine and softness through the coldest months. 

Clementine Sleepwear Organic Hair Bonnet ($99)

Bedtime luxury is possible with the Clementine Sleepwear Organic Hair Bonnet. An elevated essential for protecting your curls or waves—and your pillowcase. This silky comfort turns bedtime into a beauty ritual. 

For the Woman Who Loves Elevated Essentials

Mejuri Stevie Hoops ($198)

Sculptural and understated, the Mejuri Stevie Hoops add quiet sophistication to every outfit, from workdays to holiday dinners. Sleek, sculptural hoops that elevate every outfit—you’ll be sure to make a statement with these earrings any time of day.

L.L. Bean Barn Jacket ($150)

Heritage style meets modern ease with the L.L. Bean Barn Jacket. This classic layer pairs beautifully with denim, knits, and that timeless sense of confidence. Think cozy meets cool.

Ba&Sh Cardigan ($315)

A cozy-chic piece with Parisian polish. The soft knit and flattering drape make the Ba&Sh Cardigan a forever favorite. This is the layer she’ll live in all winter long.

For the Aspiring Home Chef

Caraway Minis Duo ($225)

Compact, non-toxic cookware that’s as beautiful as it is functional? Yes, that’s Caraway’s mission. The brand has taken the cookware industry by storm as of late. Their Minis Duo is perfect for refined home cooks or anyone who values a tidy kitchen. These small but mighty, nontoxic pans are ideal for single servings or side dishes.

Great Jones x Fellow EKG Pro Kettle ($225)

Two cult brands, one stunning collaboration. Sleek design/countertop eye candy meets precise temperature control—the Great Jones x Fellow EKG Pro Kettle is the perfect gift for the coffee connoisseur or tea ritualist. 

Branch Basics Premium Starter Kit in Glass ($125)

Sustainability meets elegance with the non-toxic cleaning kit from Branch Basics. The kit includes five reusable glass bottles, a multi-purpose cleaning solution, and an oxygen boost concentrate. The refillable glass bottles and plant-based formulas make eco-cleaning a true pleasure.

For the Homebody with Elevated Taste

Hotel Lobby New York Candle ($58)

Think cashmere, amber, and quiet sophistication. This candle is the perfect scent for slow mornings or that cocktail-hour glow. It smells like an upscale winter escape!

Barefoot Dreams CozyChic® Adult Robe ($138)

The Barefoot Dreams CozyChic® Adult Robe has achieved icon status for a reason—plush, weighty, and whisper-soft. A personal luxury worth gifting (or keeping). Yes, it’s that robe. Buttery soft and instantly relaxing, even Rachel swears by it!

For the Entertainment & Culture Lover

Bang & Olufsen Headphones ($500)

Impeccable sound and minimalist Scandinavian design—because music deserves better than basic earbuds. The Bang & Olufsen Headphones are perfect for listening to your favorite playlists and podcasts in style.

Crosley Miles Record Player ($119)

The Crosley Miles Record Player has vintage vibes with modern ease. You’ll want to put this retro-chic accent in every living area or bedroom just to elevate the space. Pair it with a few vintage records for an instantly thoughtful gift. Spin some vinyl, pour a drink, and enjoy the moment.

This season, skip the guesswork. Thoughtful gifts don’t have to be complicated. Every gift idea on this list is beautifully designed, purposeful, and built to delight—the kind of gift that earns a genuine “you really get me.” Consider your holiday shopping list officially complete.

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How to Navigate Uncertainty in a Tough Job Market https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/11/25/how-to-navigate-uncertainty-in-a-tough-job-market/ Tue, 25 Nov 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52494 If the job market feels tough for you right now, you are not alone. You’ve edited and refined your resume. You’ve applied to dozens of jobs only to receive generic rejection email templates. The truth is career uncertainty is something most of us will navigate at some point in our lives, but the good news is outside circumstances don’t have to dictate your story. 

If you are feeling stuck right now, the most powerful thing you can do is take one step. Rach shared on a recent podcast that you don’t have to know what is 20 miles down the road, but you do just have to take one step. Analysis paralysis will keep you stuck, but you get to decide who you are and what is next for you. You just have to be resourceful with what you’ve got. Here are some practical steps to move forward and navigate uncertainty in your career.

Be Strategic With Your Time

Applying to jobs in a difficult job market can feel like throwing spaghetti at a wall and hoping for something to stick. But the truth is the more you apply to just any and every job, the less likely you are to land meaningful work. In the interim of looking for work you’re passionate about, make the most of your time by getting a temp, short-term, or part-time job to pay your bills. This way you are doing something that generates income and removes the immediate pressure to find the perfect, long-term job. 

This also frees you up to be more choosy and find a job that you are passionate about. Because at the end of the day, you are trading your time for someone else’s money. The more value you provide for that exchange, the better. 

Call Your Shot

We know it’s stressful when you’re on the hunt for work, but dont let that fear push you into making a bad choice. Set your intention for your job search at the beginning (or do it today if you haven’t already) by identifying your dream companies to work for. Which brands do you admire? Which companies would you love to work for? Not sure? Start following your favorite brands on social media (especially LinkedIn) to catch their vibe. Keep a note in your phone called “Dream Companies” and add to it any time something new and fun crosses your path. This allows you to focus on positive thoughts around your job search (crucial for self confidence when you land the interview) and allows you to consider entry-point jobs at ideal companies you may not have considered if you were only focused on the “dream job”.

Customize Your Resume and Cover Letter for Each Job

When you apply for a job that is aligned with where you want to be, be sure to adjust your cover letter and resume for the job you are applying for. ChatGPT, or whatever your AI chatbot of preference is, is a great tool for customizing your resume and cover letter. Start by copying and pasting the job description you are applying for into ChatGPT. Then, upload your resume. Prompt ChatGPT with the task: “Tell me where to adjust this resume to highlight the way my past experience makes me a great candidate for this job.” Ask the AI chatbot to help you rewrite your resume or highlight areas where your skillset is great for the job.

Find Temporary Work That Excites You

As you are looking for a “bridge” or an in-between job, choose something that you enjoy. If you love espresso and creamy coffee, then look for work as a barista. If you love animals, then go apply to the local animal shelter. If you are an avid book reader, then apply to work at a bookstore or library. By finding something you are interested in, you will elevate your energy and fall in love with your life. Your time is valuable, so in this time of job uncertainty, doing work you are interested in will reduce stress and help you enjoy your day. That elevated vibration will attract more opportunities and open you up to possibilities you might’ve once missed. 

Consider Remote Work

Don’t overlook remote work as an option. The great thing about remote work is that it opens the door to companies across the country or even the globe where the job market is potentially better than the city you live in. So change those job filters to remote work. There are countless opportunities for full-time and part-time remote work in various industries.

Look for the Good Stuff

When navigating job uncertainty, it can be easy to fixate on the reality of a downturned job market. But the truth is whatever you look for, you will find. So every time you say things like, “I can’t find a job in this market,” or “There are no jobs right now,” you are reaffirming a negative belief and rewiring your brain to look for that. Your brain will focus on what you tell it to and on what you decide is important or true. 

Instead, take note of whatever you can that is positive about the job search. Maybe it’s a really well-written, intriguing job description or a cool company in your industry that piques your interest, but you can always choose to look for the good stuff. 

Choose an Affirmation That Feels True

Whether it’s a word or a sentence, affirmations assert or declare something. They are something you say over and over that affirm that is what is coming and that is what is true. But remember, your brain is powerful. When an affirmation does not line up with your lived experiences, your subconscious calls BS. There is a disconnect between what you are saying is true and what is really happening. So your subconscious mind doesn’t believe it, and you won’t see positive results. Instead, find an affirmation that feels true and is about what you can control, even in uncertainty. For example, you might say, “I am strong and confident, and when I get the job interview, I am going to knock it out of the park.”

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How to Take Yourself on an Artist Date and Why You’ll Thank Yourself Later https://msrachelhollis.com/2025/11/18/how-to-take-yourself-on-an-artist-date-2/ Tue, 18 Nov 2025 14:00:00 +0000 https://msrachelhollis.com/?p=52493 Have you reached a point of burnout or mental and emotional exhaustion where you’ve completely lost your creative spark? The creative juices just aren’t flowing like they used to. If so, it’s time to talk about something wildly important for your creative life, and wildly overlooked by, well… most of us: the artist date. It’s not fluff. It’s not indulgent, and it’s not “when you have time.” The artist date is essential.

Whether you’re a painter, a writer, a dancer, a photographer, or someone just trying to feel alive again—the artist date is a creative power move that can unblock inspiration, rekindle joy, and remind you who you are when the world’s noise gets too loud.

So, What Is an Artist Date?

Author of The Artist’s Way, Julia Cameron, coined the term “artist date,” which is a weekly solo expedition—a date with your inner artist. It’s a time to woo your creative self, to play, to explore, and to fill the well so you’re not creating from a dry, cracked riverbed of burnout.

And here’s the key: It must be solo. You do not take anyone on this artist date but you and your inner artist, a.k.a. your creative child. This is about nurturing your creative spirit. No friends, partners, or podcasts with someone else’s thoughts and opinions playing in your ear the whole time. Just you, your curiosity, and your willingness to say yes to wonder.

A Step-by-Step for Taking Yourself on an Artist Date

1. Commit to It Like a Real Date 

You have to make your artist date a priority. If you wouldn’t flake on a coffee with a friend or a dinner with someone you love, don’t flake on this. Pick a day and time, and put it in your calendar. Guard it like a dragon guards treasure. Defend this time against interlopers at all costs. You’re not being selfish—you’re being a good creative steward.

Pro tip: Even one hour is enough.

2. Choose Something That Sparks Curiosity

Here’s the fun part. This is not about being productive. It’s about delight, mystery, play, and exploration. Think small, weird, simple, or unexpected.

Some ideas for an artist date:

  • Visit a used bookstore and pick the strangest title you can find.
  • Take yourself to a hardware store and explore like it’s an art museum.
  • Sit in a park and sketch squirrels, clouds, feelings, or whatever comes to mind.
  • Go to a grocery store and buy a fruit you’ve never eaten before.
  • Visit a new art gallery at a local museum.
  • Go to a new coffee shop and people watch.
  • Take a walk in nature. Perhaps, try a path you’ve never taken before.
  • Make a collage with old magazines and glue sticks.
  • Take yourself to a silent movie or a vintage arcade.

This isn’t about “being an artist.” It’s about feeding the artist within.

3. Leave Expectations at the Door 

This is not a to-do list item or a hustle move. No “I better get an idea out of this” pressure. Your only job is to show up—curious, open, and receptive. That’s it. Sometimes, you’ll come home buzzing with ideas. Other times, it might just feel nice. That’s still a win.

4. Be Present With Yourself

Put your phone away unless you’re using it to take photos or notes intentionally. Avoid distractions. This is about engaging your senses—seeing, hearing, touching, even smelling things you’d usually rush past. You’re not escaping your life—you’re enriching it.

5. Reflect Without Judging

Afterward, take a few minutes to jot down how you felt. Not a formal journal entry. Just a few notes:

  • What surprised you?
  • What delighted you?
  • What did you learn about yourself?
  • What did your inner artist whisper, now that you gave it the mic?

This helps you build trust with yourself, and track what kind of dates truly energize you.

Why It Matters 

Admittedly, your first artist date might feel silly at first. Allow it to. The truth is you are doing something unconventional that the average person doesn’t take time to do—feeding your inner artist. Remember: creativity isn’t just about output. It’s about input. Most of us are running on empty, trying to produce when we haven’t played in ages.

Artist Dates:

  • Reignite your imagination.
  • Give you unexpected ideas.
  • Help you feel more alive and less stuck.
  • Remind you that you are worth showing up for.

And that’s the magic, isn’t it? When you nurture your creative self—your inner artist—it spills over into your work, relationships, confidence, and everything else.

Your Assignment This Week

Now here’s the challenge for you: Plan an artist date this week. Yes, you read that right.

  • Pick a time within the next seven days. Commit to it. Write it on your calendar. No excuses.
  • Choose something playful, strange, or delightful.
  • Go solo. Be present. Let yourself enjoy it.

Report back even if it’s just to yourself. You’re doing more than going on a little outing—you’re telling your creative self, “Hey, I see you. You matter. Let’s make some magic.” Now get out there. Your inner artist is waiting.

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